What precisely do I want that's positive, and how am I going to do that?

"Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?"
"That depends a good deal on where you want to get to," said the Cat.
"I don’t much care where--" said Alice.
"Then it doesn’t matter which way you go," said the Cat (Alice in Wonderland)


I am going to spend a bit of time focusing on outcomes, thinking about what I want and how I am going to get there.  I want to program my brain to seek out and notice possibilities that move me towards my goal.  In nlp terms it is a wellformed outcome.